I should say I have a big gain and a big loss in this dramatic year-2010.
I moved a great step in my life that I got married with my dear.I’m really excited that I could so ‘easily’ to find the one who cares me a lot,willing to build up our own family and share all future days.I’m damn lucky.Many people spend their whole life to seek their true love,but for us,we just spend 7 years.We get into a new stage and start to think all things for our family,no more individuals.No doubt that it’s my big gain in the year,even for my whole life.
However,nothing is perfect.I lost my grandpa several days before our wedding.Since then,I can’t see a kind old man sitting in front of me to tell me the stories of his young age,to tell me the warm topics in the big family during the days I wasn’t around.Well,it’s maybe the last lesson he wants to tell me that I should treat the death peacefully and quietly just like he did.I believe I could save all my memories of him for the rest of my life and tell my children who their great-grandpa is.Well,this loss is sort of a gain,too.
So,my keywords for 2010 are ‘marriage’ and ‘death’,two of all stages that we will have.Life has many check-in points.In every point,we will get some special gifts.When we reach the last one,we have fully valued our lives,just like winning the world.
It’s amazing!It’s life!